"THE” Dress

January 23, 2025

It was one of the most exciting, stressful yet rewarding days recently. While working on a styled shoot for a new venue that recently opened in Frederick, MD, FSK Events with a fellow wedding pro, Stacey from Frederick Floral Bar— our models canceled at the last minute and we had to find a wedding dress less than 12 hours before the  shoot (and a model of course)! Which led me down the road to TLC Bridal Boutique Inc. in downtown Frederick where they were kind enough to lead out 3 of their exquisite dresses for the shoot.


It’s funny—when I got married 8 years ago, I didn’t have that big, dream wedding with the “puffy” dress. Nope! I had a small, intimate ceremony in my dad’s backyard with just my family before my husband and I packed up and immigrated to the States. At the time, I didn’t really think about wearing a wedding dress again (unless it was for a vow renewal… maybe). But then, of course, I had to shop for dresses for a photoshoot, and, well, let's just say my feelings about wedding dresses got... complicated.


Which brings me to this blog—and the real question we’re all asking: How do you choose the right wedding dress?


Here’s the thing: every bride is totally different. We all have our unique style and preferences. But when it comes to choosing your wedding gown, the number one thing to keep in mind is choosing a silhouette that works for YOUR body. Some dress styles are super versatile, while others can be a little less forgiving when it comes to hiding those little areas you might not be so in love with. And let's be honest—every bride has that one spot she wants to flatter, right?


So before you dive headfirst into bridal shops (whether it’s our adorable local spots here in Frederick or a custom designer), take some time to figure out which silhouettes are going to make you feel like your best self. Trust me, the dress you think you should want may not always be the one that’s meant for you. And it’s totally okay if you don’t get that "wow" moment right away. Don’t let anyone pressure you into falling in love with a dress if there’s even a tiny voice in your head saying “meh.” Go with your gut—this is your big day, and it should feel right!


Let’s talk silhouettes, shall we? Because when it comes to choosing the perfect wedding dress, it’s all about finding the one that flatters you. Here’s a fun breakdown of some of the most popular styles, and which body types they work best for:


BALL GOWNS: Oh, the drama! With a fitted bodice and a full, voluminous skirt, this style screams princess. It works wonderfully for most body types, especially if you're average height to tall. The best part? That full skirt hides everything below the waist, so it's a super forgiving option. However, if you're on the shorter side, this one might swallow you up—so maybe skip it if you’ve got a petite frame.


EMPIRE DRESSES: Fitted at the bust and then flowing out to the ground, this silhouette has a forgiving high waistline that works wonders for a variety of body shapes. If you’re looking for comfort and elegance, the empire dress is a classic choice that flatters without clinging.


MERMAID DRESSES: Hello, curves! Mermaid gowns are fitted from the torso all the way down to the knees, and then they flare out at the bottom. This style is for the brides who want to show off their curves—whether you're tall and slender or curvy with all the right assets. It’s a head-turner for sure!


A-LINE DRESSES: Think slim top, fitted at the natural waist, and a gentle flare from the hips down. It’s the perfect choice for most body types, giving you that oh-so-flattering slimming effect while showing off your waist. A classic, effortless look!


FIT-AND-FLARE or TRUMPET DRESSES: These beauties hug your body from the chest to mid-thigh and then gently flare out. It’s a similar vibe to the mermaid, but a little more subtle. If you’ve got curves to show off and want a flattering fit without going all the way mermaid, this one’s your BFF.


SHEATH, SHIFT, OR COLUMN DRESSES: This one’s for the minimalists! A straight cut from neckline to hem, these dresses have a narrow shape and are perfect for brides with lean frames and soft curves. Whether it’s fitted or more relaxed, this silhouette is timeless and chic.


So there you have it—your ultimate guide to wedding dress silhouettes! Remember, it’s all about finding the one that makes you feel like you. Happy dress hunting, and trust me, when you find the one, you’ll know!


Last note: DON’T SKIP THE ACCESSORIES They’re the sparkle that takes your bridal look from gorgeous to jaw-dropping. Whether it’s a dreamy veil, a boho flower crown, or something a little more edgy (maybe a cape or a statement headpiece?), accessories are the secret ingredient to bringing your whole vibe to life.


Here’s the thing: Try it all on! Mix and match different styles with your dress to see what makes you feel like you. You might walk in thinking a flower crown is the only way to go, but end up falling in love with a classic veil. Or maybe—why not both? The magic is in the experimenting, and the goal is to find that accessory (or two!) that makes you feel absolutely fabulous.


So go ahead, play around, and find that perfect finishing touch!

You got this!

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